Relative clauses 3: whose/whom/where: start
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Point A of 4
whose
On the way back from the coast we passed a family by the roadside. Their tyre had gone flat, so we pulled over.
We helped a family whose tyre had gone flat. Whose stands for their.
Whose is used mostly for people. Do not confuse it with who's, which sounds the same but means who is or who has.
- We helped a family whose tyre had gone flat.
- A widower is a man whose wife has died.
- I met someone whose brother I was at school with.
- I sat next to a woman who works with your sister. (she works with your sister)
- I sat next to a woman whose son works with your sister. (her son works with your sister)
- I've got a friend who's learning Japanese. (who is)
- I've got a friend who's just started learning Japanese. (who has)
- I've got a friend whose son is learning Japanese.
Point A · Exercise 94.1 · part 1 of 2
At a party you met these people. The next day you tell a friend about them. Complete the sentences with who or whose.
Example
"My mother writes crime novels."
I met somebody whose mother writes crime novels.
AnswerI met somebody whose mother writes crime novels.A man: "My wife is a driving instructor."
I met a man .
AnswerI met a man whose wife is a driving instructor.A woman: "I own a tea room."
I met a woman .
AnswerI met a woman who owns a tea room."My ambition is to row across the Atlantic."
I met somebody .
AnswerI met somebody whose ambition is to row across the Atlantic.A couple: "We've just got engaged."
I met a couple .
AnswerI met a couple who have just got engaged.
Point A · Exercise 94.1 · part 2 of 2
At a party you met these people. The next day you tell a friend about them. Complete the sentences with who or whose.
"My parents used to run a pub."
I met somebody .
AnswerI met somebody whose parents used to run a pub.
Point B of 4
whom
Whom can replace who when it is the object of the verb, and after a preposition: to whom, with whom, from whom.
Whom is formal and rare in speech. People usually say a person I admire or friends you can relax with.
- Doreen is a person whom I admire enormously. (I admire her)
- Everyone needs a few people in whom they can confide.
- a person I admire enormously
- friends you can relax with
Point B · Exercise 94.2 · part 1 of 2
For each situation write a sentence with whom (more formal) and one without whom (less formal).
Example
You bumped into a teacher you hadn't seen since you left school.
More formal: I bumped into a teacher whom I hadn't seen since school.
AnswerI bumped into a teacher whom I hadn't seen since school.Example
Same situation.
Less formal: I bumped into a teacher I hadn't seen since school.
AnswerI bumped into a teacher I hadn't seen since school.You needed a builder. Your neighbours recommended one.
More formal: We hired a builder .
AnswerWe hired a builder whom our neighbours had recommended.Same situation.
Less formal: We hired a builder .
AnswerWe hired a builder our neighbours had recommended.You rang your bank with a question. The adviser you spoke to gave you the wrong information.
More formal: The adviser gave me the wrong information.
AnswerThe adviser to whom I spoke gave me the wrong information.Same situation.
Less formal: The adviser gave me the wrong information.
AnswerThe adviser I spoke to gave me the wrong information.
Point B · Exercise 94.2 · part 2 of 2
For each situation write a sentence with whom (more formal) and one without whom (less formal).
Ruth was engaged to a man, but he didn't want to marry her after all.
More formal: The man didn't want to marry her.
AnswerThe man to whom Ruth was engaged didn't want to marry her.Same situation.
Less formal: The man didn't want to marry her.
AnswerThe man Ruth was engaged to didn't want to marry her.
Point C of 4
where
Use where in a relative clause about a place.
- Last summer I visited the village where my mum was born.
- The café where we had lunch was right by the harbour.
- I'd like to live somewhere where it doesn't rain sideways.
Point C · Extra practice
Put in where.
We visited the village my mum was born.
AnswerWe visited the village where my mum was born.The café we had lunch was right by the harbour.
AnswerThe café where we had lunch was right by the harbour.Is there a shop near here I can buy a charger?
AnswerIs there a shop near here where I can buy a charger?
Point D of 4
the day, the time, the reason
We say the day we got married, the year I was born, the last time they met, with no relative word. That is also possible.
We say the reason I'm ringing, the reason she didn't get the job; that or why are also possible.
- Tuesday's no good for me. That's the day I have my driving lesson.
- When I last spoke to him, he sounded cheerful.
- The last time that I spoke to him, he sounded cheerful.
- The reason I'm ringing is to ask your advice.
- The reason why I'm ringing is to ask your advice.
Point D · Exercise 94.4 · part 1 of 2
Complete these sentences with your own ideas.
Example
Thursday's no good for me. That's the day ...
That's the day I play five-a-side.
Example answerThat's the day I play five-a-side.The reason ... was that the pay was too low.
Example answerThe reason I turned the job down was that the pay was too low.I'll never forget the time ...
Example answerI'll never forget the time I fell in the canal.... was the year ...
Example answer2010 was the year I moved to Leeds.The reason ... is that they both hate flying.
Example answerThe reason they always holiday in Britain is that they both hate flying.
Point D · Exercise 94.4 · part 2 of 2
Complete these sentences with your own ideas.
The last time I ...
Example answerThe last time I went to London, it rained the whole weekend.Do you remember the day ...?
Example answerDo you remember the day we got lost on the moors?
Put it together · Exercise 94.3 · part 1 of 2
Complete the sentences with who, whom, whose or where.
Example
We helped a family whose tyre had gone flat.
AnswerWe helped a family whose tyre had gone flat.A library is a building you can borrow books.
AnswerA library is a building where you can borrow books.A vegan is a person eats no animal products.
AnswerA vegan is a person who eats no animal products.An orphan is a child parents have died.
AnswerAn orphan is a child whose parents have died.What's the name of the caravan park your parents are staying?
AnswerWhat's the name of the caravan park where your parents are staying?
Put it together · Exercise 94.3 · part 2 of 2
Complete the sentences with who, whom, whose or where.
This class is for children first language isn't English.
AnswerThis class is for children whose first language isn't English.The woman from we rent our flat lives in Spain.
AnswerThe woman from whom we rent our flat lives in Spain.I live in a small village everybody knows everybody else's business.
AnswerI live in a small village where everybody knows everybody else's business.
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